SPECTOR – Gary (Dinga) Mervyn
Passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on the 25th of December 2019 aged 61.
Loved son of Ann (Dec) and Merv.
Husband of Diane.
Much loved father of Tayla, Matthew and Abby.
Loved Poppy of Mason.
Dear brother of Terry and Lisa, Tracey and Terry (Dec).
Reunited with his Mum.
At the conclusion of this service the funeral will leave for the Traralgon Cemetery
Rest easy ding. Hope there’s plenty of beer up there and a big old screen to watch the tigers on!December 27, 2019
I miss you so much dad! I really wish you had more time here because there’s a lot more moments you haven’t got to see yet but I know you’ll be up there looking out for us all and you’re probably scoffing down a pizza and can of coke as I write this. You will always be my best friend and I’m so lucky to share the same DNA as you because now I know how strong it is! Not a day will go by where I won’t think about you, I promise my babies in the very very distant future will know all about their poppy and how silly and funny he is. I’ll see you sometime dad and when that time does come I wont be afraid because I know you’ll be up there waiting for me. I love you so much and I’m so grateful I got to be your daughter. P.s Oscar really misses you! xoxoDecember 28, 2019
Gary, Thank you for letting me share the last 2 & 1/2 years with you.December 29, 2019
I witnessed so many special moments.
Your friends visiting the laughter & tears.
Gee you loved your back rubs all who visited you would ask can you rub my back. You would even try & ask the nurses.
You would ask me & i just couldnt it was too difficult for me so i would rub your arms. You would laugh & then say thats right you dont like it.
Im so grateful you stayed with me Gary, you have been a good brother i love you & i miss you.
Dad, We haven’t always been close but in the time that we have been you’ve been the most amazing dad. You’ve shown nothing but strength & courage since you were diagnosed. No matter how bad things got you would always have a positive attitude & be strong for your family. I am so proud to call you my dad. Thank you for being the most amazing poppy to Mason. He will always adore you. I know you’ll be at every footy match of his in spirit & I know you will always be watching over us. I’m going to miss you, your silly jokes that make no sense & I’m going to miss seeing you walking around in your stylish jeans & runners combo. Mason & I love you forever. XxDecember 29, 2019