MACKAY, Robert James “Smax”
Passed away suddenly, at home, on Tuesday 27 May 2025. Aged 74 years.
Dearly loved husband of Denise.
Dearly loved father of Steven, Heather and Belinda.
Loved father-in-law of Nicole, Mark, and Chris.
Grumpy-Pa of Cody, Luke and Zoe, and Gemma and Thomas.
Loved son of Vern (dec.) and Gloria.
Loved brother of Heather (dec.) and Cheryl.
Dearly loved son-in-law of the late Martin and Lillian Giddens. Loved brother-in-law of Norman, Chris & Jeanie, Alan & Mary, Judith & Bill, Dianne & Bernie (dec.).
Love uncle, and great uncle of many.
You worked so hard for those you loved, you always did your best, you fought until you could no more, and now you are at rest, sadly missed.
You were someone special, someone good and true, you will never be forgotten, we thought the world of you.
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Sending our condolences on your sad loss Rick Raelene Milburn
May 29, 2025Heartfelt condolences to all the family . Our prayers and love at the sudden loss of your dear father. May you be comforted by your treasured memories of a much loved father.
May 29, 2025
Danuta , Cary & Locke.🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️So long smacks you will be very sadly missed glad we had our family tea together on Sunday night RIP have a beer with bernie love judith bill niel kate and families xx
May 29, 2025RIP Robert Condolences to Denise Steven Heather Belinda and families. A Good Bloke. Gail and Paul Coffey.
May 29, 2025Sending our thoughts and prayers to Denise, Steven, Heather and Belinda. Jodie Naismith (née Forbes)
May 29, 2025Sincere condolences to you Denise and all your family x
May 29, 2025Condolences Denise ,Steve and family on the loss of Smax .
May 29, 2025
Another good one gone.
Love Jim and Valda Durrant .Dad, we are heart broken you are no longer here with us. You have left a big hole in all of our hearts and our family. You will never be forgotten and always talk about. We will miss you shaking your head, and saying “I can’t hear you” then saying “you don’t have to yell” when we repeat what we’ve said, just a little bit louder. You gave me 2 of your strongest traits. Stubbornness and a great sense of humour. Thank you for loving Chris, Jimmy & Janie and begrudgingly your Grandcat, Rambo. You were a big softy with a hard shell.
Love always, Belinda & Chris.
May 29, 2025Our deepest sympathy to Heather Mark Gemma and Thomas on the sudden loss of your loved dad and pop. Also to your family. Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time Love Barbara and Austin Gapper, Emily and Josh and families 🙏🙏🙏
May 29, 2025Our sincere condolences to you Denise and family, RIP Rob, you will be dearly missed.
May 29, 2025
Lou and Helen MareskaDear Denise,Stephen,Heather,Belinda and families.So sorry to hear of your loss.We send our love and condolences to you all.Robert was a good man,they are hard to find.Love Sandra,Matthew,Joel,Caddie and families.Thinking of you all.💕💐xox
May 29, 2025Denise and family so sorry to hear about Robert sending all our condolences, Darren & Mary
May 30, 2025Much loved brother-in-law of Dianne and Bernie (dec) Vizard, much loved uncle of Narelle and Brian , great uncle of Josh, Tahlia , Jacob.
May 30, 2025
Thank you for all your support since Bernie’s passing you will be so sadly missed and we will miss the no more whinging about the walking up and down the hill!!!
You and Bernie will be having a beer ot two together.🍺🍺
Wonderful memories forever in our hearts.
Deepest sympathy to Nese , Steven &Nicole ,Heather & Mark, Belinda & Chris and the grandchildren Cody, Luke , Zoe , Gemma & Thomas xxTo dear Denise, Steven, Heather, Belinda and families
May 30, 2025
We are so saddened for your loss, will miss your beautiful Smaxy and he’s cheeky banter.
He and Bernie will be together again having a cold beer
RIP dear friend
Love Graeme, Gel and family 💙Dear Denise, Steven and Nicole, Heather and Mark, Belinda and Chris and families. So sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you all, we have wonderful memories of a great brother in law and uncle. Much loved brother in law to Mary and Alan uncle and great uncle to Mark and Sharlene, Chris, Jacqui and Trev, Michael and Kristy and their families Rest peacefully Smacca
June 1, 2025Robert, thanks for the last 54 together, 51 & 1/2 years of “wonderful “ marriage. We had our good and bad times but we stuck together. We had 3 wonderful kids, their partners and then our 5 grandkids, which brought us so much joy. I will miss your humorous attitude and the banter we shared. Thank you for being a great handyman and making our house our home. We have made lots of cherished memories.
See you later.
Lots of love, Denise xx
June 2, 2025Condolences Denise and Families RIP Rob You will be dearly Missed.
June 2, 2025Dad, we are heartbroken that you are gone. You were always our rock—supporting, guiding, and helping us in every way you could. I will miss being your TA, standing by your side while you fixed things and taught me how to use your drills. You had a way of making even the smallest tasks feel special. Thank you for always drawing all over my walls when hanging things up. Thanks for always getting up early to watch Gemma and Thomas play sport, we could see how proud you were of them.
Dad you always said, “If it’s on bloody Facebook, it must be true!” Well Dad, it’s on Facebook and I wish it wasn’t true.
Forever in our hearts,
Heather and MarkPa, Drongo night will never be the same without you, because of Nan’s strict rules. When Nan said ‘No’, you always said ‘Yes!’ Thanks for making me first in charge for filling up the water jug, I promise to fill them up right! You’ve always been my number one supporter for netball, even though you had no idea of the rules of the game. Love and miss you, Pa!
GemmaPa, I will miss picking on ‘bloody McKay’ when watching the Bombers, icy-pole time and scaring you in your man cave. Thank you for supporting me all these years I have been playing sport. May you forever be grumpy. Love you, Pa!
June 2, 2025
ThomasThoughts hugs and love ,to Denise and all the family. We never really lose them as they are always in our hearts and memories. Xx
June 2, 2025Our deepest sympathy to you all. Our best neighbour and friend. Sorry we can’t be there.
June 3, 2025
Love Enid and The Joyce FamilyA great mate and a beautiful friend Wehave had nearly a life time of friendship ALL the great grand final days we shared together and the Melbourne CUP days, we had lot’s of laughs and taking the piss out of each other. Watching the kids grow up, and all the weddings of our children, then came all our grandchildren proud moments for us thanks for the great memories love you Robert and miss you, GREG ,GWEN AND FAMILY.
June 3, 2025Dad
June 3, 2025
Words can’t describe what we are feeling. You were my best mate, a great father In-law and a great Pa. I will deeply miss our fishing trips our trips to Dargo and generally having a beer and a chat. The kids loved you coming to watch them play sport and going away with them.
May you rest in peace and I will catch up for a beer on the 90 mile beach some time.
Love always Steve & Nicole, Cody, Luke & ZoeThoughts are with you Heather, Mark, Gemma & Thomas. May you carry many good times and happy memories in your hearts always
June 3, 2025A wonderful brother -in-law ,uncle and great uncle gone too soon. So many fond memories over the years , you will never be forgotten. RIP Robert. Our deepest sympathies and love to Denise, Steven, Nicole, Heather, Mark, Belinda, Chris & families.
June 3, 2025
love always Chris, Jeanie, Craig, Sonia , Bugsy, Marty & families xxxTo Denise, Steven, Heather, Belinda and families we are so saddened by the loss of Robert, lots of fun times over the years in Morwell and Lilydale. Much love to you all, Shirley, Ange , Kirsty ,Clem and their families xxxx
June 4, 2025Dear Denise & family
We send our heartfelt condolences 😔 to you all at this sad time. Very fond memories of a lovely family ❤️ RIP Smacka.
Love from Magoo & Lisa xx ❤️
June 4, 2025Uncle Rob
You will be dearly missed by all. Although grumpy at times you were a big softy at heart especially once the grand kids came along. Thinking of all the family at this time rest in peace Rob.
Michael Kristy Amelia and Natalie xo
June 4, 2025So sad to hear the passing of Smaxi , back in our Youth Club days he was a great mate and a terrific team mate , he always went in for the hard ball and never let the team down. I have some great memories and am proud to call him a good mate. Condolences to Denise and your whole family , l am thinking of you all at this very sad time.
June 4, 2025Condolences to Denise and family.
June 4, 2025
RIP Rob . Now happily spending time with his mate Bernie.
Love The Embletons.🥰Denise, Steven, Heather & Belinda
June 4, 2025
Our thoughts & love are with you all and your families.
Sorry we can’t be there for his send off but will be thinking of you all. Much love Tony & Tracey GeorgeDear Denise and family we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Robert. Sending lots of love your way.
June 4, 2025Deepest Sympathy to you all
June 4, 2025Dear Denise and family.
Heartfelt condolences to you all. Fond memories of our friendship and great cricket days with Latrobe. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bob and Sharon Scott
June 4, 2025Dear Denise and family,
June 4, 2025
So sorry to hear of the passing of Robert. Thinking of you and your family at this most difficult time. I hope the two brother-in-laws are enjoying a beer together!
Take care,
Robyn & PaulSending our love to you Denise and your family. Phil and I are in Queensland and are not able to be there tomorrow. We will be thinking of you all and know that you will give Robert a wonderful send off.xx
June 4, 2025Sending our heartfelt condolences to Denise and family . Rob was a great bloke. We enjoyed our catchups at Heather and Marks for a beer and a bomber chat! RIP Rob xx
June 4, 2025Uncle Rob, you were stubborn, kind, and couldn’t hear a thing — but that was just you, and we loved you for it.
June 4, 2025
You kept track of every stat, every run, every wicket like it was sacred. Jacob is still not happy that you gave Josh one of his wickets!
You’ll be deeply missed, but remembered with a smile, a shake of the head, and a lot of love.
Rest easy, Uncle Rob.
Love Ral, Josh, Tahlia and Jacob xxDear Denise & Family thinking of you all at this difficult time. Maureen Willoughby & Family.
June 4, 2025To Dear Denise, Steve, Heather, Belinda & all the family.
June 4, 2025
What a shock, when I read the news on Facebook but as Heather said if it’s on Facebook it’s true. Sending lots of love to you all, can’t believe we were having a beer together just the week before.
Enjoy a beer with Bernie!
Love Mike, Lisa, Jay & Isla BloomfieldThinking of you Denise, Steven, Heather, Belinda and families.
June 4, 2025
He was one of a kind who will be terribly missed. Keep the memories close to your heart. Sending all our love Tenille, Mark the Howell and Claassens families xxxxRobert you were my big brother you left us suddenly we are all trying to process our feeling of loss
June 4, 2025
I have vivid memories of your ferrets and catching rabbits for our pocket money and sadness when we lost your favorite one Lucy
Mum and dad would only let me go to the Karma dances if you chaperoned me – I was 16
You would dump me at the Karma with all the other girls whilst the boys went to the pub and came back when it closed after 10pm – we were supposed to be excited that you all returned to finally dance with us
You married Denise and had 3 great kids
You loved your family and i watched you being so patient with the grand children
I read your brag book with all their sporting achievements
I did not see you often but we were happy to see each other and i know you loved me in your own way
I have a lot of good memories you have left a sadness in our lives
You are missed RIP Robert
You loving sister Cheryl XSending condolences to the family, thinking of you all at this difficult time! 💙
June 4, 2025I feel so lucky to have had a wonderful Uncle like you. I loved visiting Morwell, to know what it feels like to be a part of a big family. I will always cherise all those big family events. Seeing you there, always with a big smile on your face and a big welcoming hug. Always joking and enjoying yourself.
I have loved that you have been able to visit us here in Perth and get to know my own little family, my husband and my two young kids.
Rest in peace Uncle Robert, I love you always.
Tara, Guy, Jordie and Phoenix.
June 5, 2025We are so sorry to hear of Smacka’s passing Denise, our deepest condolences to you and the family. We are so sorry we can’t be there for you at the funeral as we are currently in the UK. Smacka was a man I greatly respected, he kept me in line in my younger years at work and was an inspiration to all of us young sparkies who he supervised in the golden era at Loy Yang A. I will always remember him fondly, may he rest in peace 😔
June 5, 2025Aunty Denise, I am so sorry I am unable to be with you all today, I send my condolences to you all, I will be thinking of you. Smaxy was a great man and will be greatly missed , thinking of you all
June 5, 2025
With love JordanSo incredibly sorry, sincere condolences Denise, Steven, Heather, Belinda and families,
June 5, 2025
Will miss my 6 weekly chats and laughs with Robert xxx
Mary LanganSo glad we caught up the other week Smax’s
June 5, 2025What a Beautiful Service. Heather, Belinda & Steven were amazing. Our thoughts go out to you all 💕. Cheers to Rob 🍻🥂
June 5, 2025Dear Denise, Steven, Heather, Belinda and families.
June 6, 2025
May the love and support of family and friends and
all your beautiful memories of Rob comfort you all
at this very sad time.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie and the Ryan Family.