LADE, Thomas Alan

We met Tom when we moved to Yeronga he was the only Neighbour that reached out to us , we loved having him as our friend in the street we had great laughs and parties together …. We also came to visit Tom when we were in Melbourne last year. I’m so devastated to hear this sad news , such a beautiful soul. I’m so sorry to you all , his beautiful family. Who he often spoke about with affection. Xx 😙 love Caitlin and David Simonson xxx

A beautiful soul, how blessed we are to have been in his life albeit for much too little time. Our deepest sympathy to loved ones.
RIP Paul & Lisa

Sincere condolences to the Lade family. My heart goes out to you all. May the memories give you comfort in this very sad time. Thomas will always be remembered in the hearts that loved him,
Thinking of you all, love Gina Davidson and family

Condolences to the Lade family on the loss of Thomas,sweet is the sleep that ends all pain.

Dear sweet Tom, l am just completely shattered that you are no longer here. My heart breaks for your family, Bryce and friends all of whom you spoke so fondly.
I loved our wonderful friendship and will miss you dearly.Sweet Dreams dear friend.

Dear Carolyn, Alan, Hannah, Angus, Emily, and all your families,
My sincere condolences for such a terrible loss to you all, and to the world. I have such fond memories of growing up with Tom, and I hope you all cherish the memories of your lives together. Thinking of you all at this time,
Love, Claire Morrissey

Deepest Sympathy To The Lade Family,
Sorry to here Sad News xx Elaine and Graeme

Alan, Carolyn, Hannah, Angus and Emily and Family our hearts break for you at this very sad and difficult time. Hold on to those precious memories and good times that were had.
Thomas we hope you are at rest, you were always a beautiful fun loving kid, forever loved.
Love Sally, Eric Madalin and Lucas

Goodbye Tom,
May your soul rest in peace in heaven. Your company will be greatly missed.
Babs

Condolences to all the Lade Family, memories of Tom will live in your hearts forever

Sincerest condolences to Tom’s nearest and dearest.
We loved working with Tom at Southern Ocean Lodge.
So many lovely memories. Rest in peace Tom.

I am in utter shock. Tom you were there for every hard time in my life forever laughing when you called me to check if your tie matched your outfit being colour blind. You helped me through the hardest times. I’m so sorry I wasn’t there for you, like you were for me. Even sending gifts to my kids from where ever you were in the world. The world won’t be the same without you.

Dearest Tom ~ we will all miss you so very much! You brought such joy to so many people far & wide but mostly to your loving family!
Our deepest condolences & love to you Carolyn & Alan, Bryce, Hannah & Dan (Billy), Angus, Sandy, Emily & Millen (Martha).
Susan & Geoff Arney

Dear Carolyn, Alan and family, we are so sad to hear of Tom’s passing. We remember that young boy, during our early years at Flynn playgroup, who grew into a vibrant and vivacious young man.
Sending love and condolences for your tragic loss.
Mark, Heather, Shaun, Jayden and Lachy 💔

Sending much love to our dear friends the Lades, as we mourn Tom’s passing. A very cute little boy who grew into such a fine man who we have been proud to be close to. We will miss you being at camping trips, family functions , holidays and at Flynn doing the drinks. . The memories mean so much now. Rest in Peace Tom

To Alan , Carolyn & family, Sending love and Heartfelt condolences in your sad loss. Sincerely Alma Glover.

Sincerest condolences to the Lade family, and all those who lives were ever brightened by Tom. Rest peacefully dear Tom.
With love, Ellen, Michael and Archie.

Your beautiful son Carolyn. He was so kind to me when we were hiking. He looked after all of us. Sending love to you and your family ❤️

Dear Carolyn and Alan and family

Thinking of you and sending love and strength.
This is such sad and awful news.

Terri and rich.

Deepest condolences and love to Tom’s family and Bryce. Tom had a group of friends in Brisbane that loved him dearly. He was kind and funny and great company. He brightened all our lives. I’ll miss him very much.

Deepest condolences and love to Tom’s family and Bryce. Tom had a group of friends in Brisbane that loved him dearly. He was kind and funny and great company. He brightened the lives of us all and I’ll miss him very much.

Our heartfelt condolences to the Lade family; our thoughts are with you.
Julie, Mick, Todd and Kate Ripon

Dear Alan, Carolyn, Hannah, Angus, Emily and families.
My sincere condolences to you all on the sad loss of Thomas.
Benito Guzzardi.

We are saddened to hear of the passing of Tom.Our hearts go out to Carolyn,Alan,Hannah,Angus,Emily and all who knew him.
We all have fond memories of our time spent with Tom and all the family at scouting and camping events.
Rest peacefully Tom.
Steven, Petra, Justin and Kristen

Your imprint in my life I’ll always hold dear.
I only saw you just the other week, made you look all handsome, we hugged and I walked you to your car like I always do, and said ‘see you in a month’s time!’

We chatted about your awesome trip overseas to marry your friends, and getting you ready for your next trip in a couple of weeks.

I’ve been so lucky to have you in my world for the last 8 years. Sharing time with you every 6 weeks, with you literally driving a 5 hour round trip to Daylesford to hang with me, that will forever sit close to my heart.

To your family and Bryce, Im so sorry, my deepest condolences, the tragedy of loosing this beautiful & caring man, I’m hurting for you all.

Sending so much warmth & love to those that need it, goodbye for now my dear friend.

Elise & the whole Hair & Beauty Retreat Daylesford team xx

We are all so sad that the world has lost a truly kind, gentle, funny and engaging person, as Tom was. Although our times with Tom were brief in the scheme of things, these short times were made better by him being there. Our walking adventures won’t be the same. We are feeling very much for Carolyn, Alan and Tom’s siblings and in-laws, and also for Bryce and all the Mumford family. RIP Tom. Rhonda, Stan, Louise and Max Kemsley

To my beautiful cousin Tom — so kind, gentle, and full of love. The first to RSVP, the last to leave, and always arriving with warmth and laughter.

You loved the finer things in life, but it was your generous heart and deep devotion to family that defined you. Your bear hugs were the absolute best.

My hearts breaks especially for you Alan and Carolyn, Hannah, Angus, Emily, and your families, and for you Bryce, the love of Tom’s life.

Adored always, never forgotten.

With love, Catherine

To our dearest cousin, Tom.

Tom was truly one of a kind. He brought such colour, warmth, and originality into our lives. He embraced every occasion with flair and never missed a chance to dress up, celebrate, and be completely, joyfully himself.

He loved life’s luxuries—travel, style, and a touch of drama—but he always, always valued family above all else. No matter where he was or what he was doing, he prioritised us. We always felt his love.

Thinking of you always with so much love

From Claudia, Alexandra, Brontë, Lucinda and Luke

Carolyn, Alan and family, our sincere condolences to you all on the devastating loss of Thom.

Thom, your star did indeed shine brightly. You were a wonderful young man. I always enjoyed our chats and your great sense of humour. You are missed.

With love from the Gilmour’s and Davis clans.

Tom, you always made the biggest impact, had the biggest smile and laughter. I’ll forever be grateful for the fun memories at SOL with you. You will be missed

To Carolyn, Alan, Hannah, Angus and Emily, and families. We will always hold such precious memories of Tom, a kind, caring and beautiful person. Our deepest sympathy to you all. Much love from Ian and Kerryn Conabere and our family.

Tom, such a shock to hear that you are no longer here.
You always were such a kind and caring soul.
Even though it has been a long while since our primary school days it was always such a pleasure to hear snippets of your life updates.

To the Lade’s – I am so so sorry for your loss.

My deepest condolences to Alan, Carolyn and family. My heart breaks for you all.

I have such lovely memories of Tom throughout our primary school years. He was always kind, friendly, warm and a lot of fun.
Thinking of you all through this incredibly difficult time.

Tom I already miss making you give me a twirl in one of your wonderful outfits. Thank you for always opening your home to us and always bringing your mums noddle salad to every event…and finally giving in a sharing the recipe with us! I’ll always treasure all the ‘southsiders’ dinners and cocktail nights!

Although we never met your family you spoke of them so fondly, and I send so much love to all Tom’s family and friends in Victoria.

Our deepest condolences, Ethan and Rhi

I’ve always known Tom of course, but we became much closer when he lived around the corner from us in Yeronga.

He was always such warm and fun company, even with the curve balls. He was a total social butterfly, and I can’t remember him ever knocking back a social invitation.

We had many boisterous ‘farewells’ as he anticipated leaving Brisbane only to find the date delayed. Or so he told us!

He was genuine and beautiful and much loved.

A final farewell Tom.
Steph, Derek, Leila and Clementine

Dearest Tombaromba ~

miss your cheery smile & big hugs so much!

We enjoyed so many aperol spritz’s &
Proseccos together all over the world! 🥂

And you taught me how to do ‘the chop’ with throw cushions! Such valuable information I will never forget!

Much love & big squeezy hugs,
Aunty Susan 💙

We only knew Tom a short time but our whole family instantly liked him and were thrilled when he came to Adelaide to share our Canadian Thanksgiving. His dry humour and love of food and wine meant he fit in effortlessly. When your dog takes a shine to someone on first meeting, you know that is a good person. He was a wonderful house guest and will be remembered with love. “Oh my stars!” will be forever now in our family sayings.
Our deepest condolences to all of Tom’s family and friends. We are all richer for having known such a kind and giving soul, and we will pay his love and kindness forward to others.

To the Lade family, We have many fond memories of Tom from visits to the farm and scout trips, especially our Wilson’s Prom hike together. He was such a gentle, caring and fun person. Sending our love and deepest condolences to you all ❤️ Love from the Stoddarts

Tom was a welcoming and social soul and it was a pleasure to have met him, people will always have fond memories of him, our hearts bleed for you and all our love goes out to you Carolyn, Alan, Hannah, Angus and Emily at this difficult time.

Love from the Milburns in Glasgow xxx

Dear Lade family,

We are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Please know you are in our thoughts, and we send all our love and deepest sympathy.

With love,
The Rivers Family

Spent a life altering year in England with Tom. A GAP year where we grew up, explored the world, and met incredible people. An integral part of that, was Tom. Incredibly funny, kind and unique. So sorry you’ve passed on Tom. So much love to you, and your family.

Dear dear Tom
You will be so sorely and deeply missed. Your unique blend of big smile, kindness, warmth, dry wit, and classy character set you apart. I admired your natural way of connecting, while maintaining an authentic distinctiveness. I reflect on sharing hiking stories, champagnes celebrating family milestones, and laughter.
Loved so much.
Changed the world for the better.
Alive in memories forever.

Janine

Delightful, articulate, smart, generous, considerate, accommodating, humorous, artistic, gentle, sensitive – the descriptions of Tom are endless and all positive. He will be sorely missed, but the memories he left are warm, loving and will be cherished and live on with all who knew him. Rest in peace dear Tom. Teasdale family.

Dear Tom
You will be so sorely and deeply missed. Your unique blend of big smile, kindness, warmth, dry wit, and classy character set you apart. I admired your natural way of connecting, while maintaining an authentic distinctiveness. I reflect on sharing hiking stories, champagnes celebrating family milestones, and laughter.
Loved so much.
Changed the world for the better.
Alive in memories forever.
And thank you.

Janine Teasdale, Max, Scarlett and Harry

I will not forget you Tom , we knew eachother since you moved to Daylesford and you achieved so much in that time since . Lots of great memories over the years I’m so grateful to have known you . Italy will never be the same without is sharing the stories and the places we love there .
Christian

Condolence to all the Lade family.
Rest in Peace Thomas.

John and Lynette van Vondel and family.

My deepest love and condolences to the Lade Family. You raised an incredible young man with traits and qualities not often found. To Bryce, thank you for sharing your love story, Tom deserved a love like yours. As we move forward without Tom, we will honour and remember him in ways in which he would surely approve xx

To Tom Family and to our darling Tom

I want to share my heartfelt condolences to you and your family and pray that the peace of jesus will guide you.

Tom darling:Glam.

Where to start and what to say. You have left me speechless. Your light and wisdom will be missed but I feel so blessed that your brightlight is now a going to brighten the heavns above.

I meet Tom in 2014 in Brisbane at a dam smith concert . Along. He is Brest friends with my my friend Leah. And we all meet at Sam Smith and at Sofitel Brisbane.

What a blessing that was. My last time with Tom was in Melbourne at a bottomless brunch. I wasn’t suppose to come to this lunch as I was caught up but I made it. This was this year 4th of May. I will always treasure this moment .

You will be missed but never forgotten. Bless you Tom

After today’s beautiful send off for the human sunshine that is Tom Lade – I feel even luckier to be Tom’s friend. Hearing his amazing family, dear friends and loving partner speak so beautifully and adoringly about everything we clearly all love about Tom; I love him and miss him even more. It was so special to see all the people in Tom’s life that he always spoke so highly of and it was heartbreakingly beautiful to see Tom’s eyes, face and mannerisms in his gorgeous mum and siblings.
What a magnificent and incredibly loved human you will always be TDL. I’m so sad you had to go – but wow, what a life well lived my darling friend. You’re endlessly inspiring and there will never be another Tom. You made the world a better place.
Loving you always, forgetting you never.
Your blessed Phillip Island friend, Karrie – & Jaz & Louis too xxx

Our love and prayers are with you Carolyn and Alan, and all family both close and slightly less close, and all Tom’s friends, at this terrible time.

We trust your memories will remain bright and positive, and grief will be tempered by those memories of a wonderful son, brother and friend.

Peter & Diana Dunning

My beautiful friend, how I miss you.
There are no words to express how much you touched our lives, and it’s incomprehensible that you’re no longer with us.

Your sense of humour, immaculate taste, and fiercely loyal friendship were just some of the many things that made you special.

I’m truly grateful for the time we shared — our cheeky midweek lunches in Armadale, boozy dinners, and long walks around Toorak, judging houses and laughing the whole way through.

Our friendship was full of laughs, interiors, and food — it’s one I’ll always hold close to my heart, and I’m so thankful I was a part of your world.

All my love and condolences to the Lade family — who were the shining light of his life and who he spoke of so often. Also to Bryce — the love of his life.

Love you endlessly and forever in my thoughts.

Pussy bows and dirty martinis forever

x

So sorry to hear of your loss, our deepest condolences to you all.

We only learnt today & deeply saddened, l had a great working relationship with Tom resulting in a great friendship.He always called past and would be fun and mischief. Will miss him terribly.